Friday, April 22, 2005

BGR? MWR! Got diff meh? =P

For the sake of those who cannot make head or tail of some of my posts, and are truly concerned.

Yes, I am currently considering getting into a relationship.

If you know who the person is, then you know. Likewise, if you don't know who the person is, then you dunno lah. ;)

Am really thankful for the suggestions given by my friends, really, but after some thought, I'd rather not rush into this right now; and even if I were to regret, I'd rather not regret doing the thing that won't be helpful for the other party anyway.

It's probably easier to just decide on whether I like the person or not or even just whether I can live with the person, but being strangers in this world, there are other views and prioirities that need to be considered. Vaguely put: how we should live as God's people whilst in this world.

There's many questions which I'm unsure of (and of whether I need to be sure of them in the first place), like why this person and not this other person, or more importantly is it a good decision to start trying to get to know her better now?

Time is running out (regarding her), not that she's terminally ill or anything (duh), but that the chances to even meet as a normal friend/brother-in-Christ is going to be really really slim (*ah-hem*) soon.

But till then, I think I'll need to understand more about this before I try to consider this kind of thing, since I know that what I hold on to so far isn't concrete enough for me to make a decision, to serve another person as an expression of our godliness, or for the encouragement of such growth.

Aiyahhhhhhhhhhhhhh~~~~

17 comments:

Anonymous said...

ah pek!!! Dun worry...u can do it de la...will only kill more brain cells if u continue to worry!!!

fT said...

"Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase, just take the first step." -- Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

lagon said...

agree with the both of them...

meow...

taiyongchieh said...

OH NO!!!!!
I KNOW!!!!

I wonder why does my sixth sense not help me in spotting questions in exams but always feel me with this kind of informations...

I KNOW I KNOW I KNOW!

And now you'll have to pay me to shut me up!

HAHAHAHA...
:P~

GunBlad3 said...

Woah....the rare visitor comments!
Elloz FT =P

Thanks again, for your suggestions =)

TYC, I don't have to pay you to shut you up, I only have to silence you....for good!

Anyway spotting qns in exam isn't good, you're here for an "education" you know? Haha

taiyongchieh said...

Education in Singapore?
You must be kidding...

Anonymous said...

Sometimes the more u deliberate, the more u r confused. I know we wanna honour God in our relationship & we need to be serious in choosing the the 'right' spouse, but God also gives us freedom of choice. So be a man- either u be decisive & act upon it or blow it :P

And I dunno if it's gd or bad that u actually think & worry so much over every issues. I must say u r really a thinker!!! -Ming-

Giraffe Pen (기린 만년필) said...

Yikes! Good luck with that... I don't really know much about pursuing such relationships with members of the opposite sex but may The Force be with you :)

- H.

Barney said...

We all have to take a step of faith with regards to choosing a life-partner because God probably won't tell you in the face who it is. But at least we're guided by a Biblical criteria. If that person fits this criteria, and you think the time is right for both of you, go for it! Don't be so afraid of making mistakes that you'll end up having regrets at the end. :P

lagon said...

"BE A MAN!!! DO THE RIGHT THING!!!"
-- standup comedian Russell Peters

ppl r k.a.p.o about these kinda of things one wat...
hahaha...

meow...

stiTcHx (><,) said...

I agree with lagon. We ARE concern. lolx...
R tsktsk... R tsktsk... haha

Take one step at a time, you wouldn't know wats installed for you until you've tried. Anyway it take two to clap & it's a LONG learning process, so jia you wor haha... But bear in mind to honour our God k. Yah, some five cents worth hee...

P.S: wat a relief... =p

grasie_me said...

aiyoh... u ah... bluff ppl huh... tt time say no more liao... yuan lai huh....
think so much... no wonder u have to colour ur hair... all growing white already rite???

tree said...

I see! Blogging about BGR yields record-breaking number of comments! This is something worth noting!

Oh, of course, it is worth noting that you are serious about relationship and considering how it may benefit both parties in the longer term. I'm encouraged by what I learn from you. :)

And still I can't believe there is an abnormally large number of comments for this entry! Keke...

GunBlad3 said...

=")

Errrr.....I think I'm getting a lot of crap from my friends (soon to be ex-alive-friends =P ) nowadays.

=S

But thanks, for the comments...

Anonymous said...

*flipped* Gosh, nearly died laughing. You actually said it in your blog!!! Laffs! Should I get her to read it or not? Ohh, I am sooooo tempted! =p

Nah, I'm not going to comment/do anything, since you have already made your decision. Anyway, it's always good to share to a brother and not a bunch of ladies next time. =p

Glad you've made a decision. No more suaning about this from now on. :)

hamster said...

You only know your true friends when you start getting suaned...

Haaaa...

Just another step in the process to discovering more about life itself. But the Bible does have something to say about wives. Maybe you should use that as your gauge... then you'll probably regret it less if you "make a mistake".

der said...

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